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in case you haven't figured out by now - It's my life and anything else in between.
Soo Jin

Date: 2009-12-10 01:49
Subject: in case you haven't figured out by now
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I am feelingemo
Listening toBoys Like Girls - Two Is Better Than One [Ft. Taylor Swift]
Tags:friends, friendship, reflections
I have a nostalgic + sentimental streak probably a country mile long.
I have a tendency of keeping things and the probably holds true for most things.
The wonders/miracle that is the internet had greatly improved communication by the time I went overseas to study for the very first time. I noted with a degree of curiousity to what was in the folder simply labelled "guys" in my yahoo mail. There were other mails too but that's a story for another place and time.

During that time, my group of friends were very very different with what it is today.
Sometimes I feel a sense of disappointment and perhaps a degree of loss as well. Maybe I didn't put in enough to make that friendship last. Maybe they didn't care enough to make it last either. Whatever it is, it's no longer there.

I read with amusement some of the e-mails that we bounced around our little group. The language was certainly colourful. Mentions of visiting each other as by that time, there was one in the US, one in the UK, one in NZ and 3 of us over in Australia. Mini updates so to speak. Dating, or meeting someone interesting or our lives when we got to wherever. The little things, the everyday things. But alas nothing is forever and I guess these friendships fell into that heading as well.

I know that one's getting married real soon. One is getting married next year. One has dropped off the face of the earth. And I believe that there's another getting hitched in another 2 years time. That leaves one more who is also not in the country. That one I don't get any news whatsoever.

Oh well =)

Congrats are in order. All the best guys. =) I seriously doubt that any of you will read this but what the heck. This is more for me than for you.. lol
Hopefully I'll get invited to the one in the US. That will be fun.
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