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Soo Jin

Date: 2008-10-29 23:35
Subject: of friends
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I am feelingmoodymoody
Tags:friends, friendship
Maybe I'm guilty of not doing what I say I'd do.
You may or may not have heard of my oft repeated mantra or.. rules to live by.
3 times and you're out..
It's usually way more than 3 times because I don't like to give up.

But I have to concede..
people do part ways and more often than not, it's because ppl just simply grow and when they don't grow together, they'll grow apart.
sad but true.

Maybe I sort of didn't really want to believe that, that we can still find a common ground and be friends again like we used to be.
But after reading this.. I guess I have to come to terms with that fact that I will lose friends as I've already lost but steadfastly refuse to accept.

A friend of mine is leaving to work in Singapore soon.
We were close for a while maybe about 2 years ago. After she started dating this guy and started working, I didn't hear from her anymore.
I try, I do what I'm good at.. giving people the guilty feeling but it doesn't feel sincere anymore after that.

so I guess for most.. I should stop trying to tend to that tree that we used to hold dear..

take care friend.
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