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Soo Jin

Date: 2007-06-08 22:51
Subject: how do you know? =)
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I am feelingill-humoured
Listening toDavid Tao - Regular Friends

Real common question here folks.

How do you know if you've found the one?

I'm/was convinced that I have. Objectively looking at the qualities that I'd want/looking for (in that sense)


"If you think you've found the one, and she doesn't think you're the one, THEN she's obviously not the one."

Now, would that be a negative point of view? I mean you could theoretically change her point of view, right?

So according to YC, I haven't found THE ONE.
I think I did.. perhaps I should amend it to, I thought I did...

I burn bridges alot.. =P I'm the kind of guy who's all or nothing.
"Anything worth doing is worth doing right." That's pretty much the credo I live by which also creates some unnecessary drama.. sigh..

I'd been guilty of perhaps making comparisons with my then current with someone whom I thought would have been most ideal one to be with whom I gave up on.
But now I've found a new ideal.. Someone who matches up to the former ideal and even surpasses her.
Alas, I'm not her ideal..

back to square one.

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User: (Anonymous)
Date: 2007-06-11 07:21 (UTC)
Subject: what is the problem?
methinks, the 柠檬草的味道 best describe you. If you already know the lyrics deep inside. - charlene.
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User: dcsjin
Date: 2007-06-11 12:14 (UTC)
Subject: Re: what is the problem?
it describes me currently
or in the past?
or in the future?

I think it's the past.. =)
not current nor future.. what do you think?
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User: (Anonymous)
Date: 2007-06-12 00:55 (UTC)
Subject: Re: what is the problem?
the song already say about you~! --我们都没错, 只是不适合. If you think it is the past, make sure you won't repeat again. Move on. :)

all your post make me realized how emotional, sentimental a guy can be, i thought only girls. But it is something so unique about you. :)-charlene
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User: dcsjin
Date: 2007-06-12 05:22 (UTC)
Subject: Re: what is the problem?
moving not that easy.. =P
i'm not exactly the most heartless of person.

I think I outdo a lot of girls.. lol
I guess thanks is in order for your compliment?
lol =)
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