Real common question here folks.
How do you know if you've found the one?
I'm/was convinced that I have. Objectively looking at the qualities that I'd want/looking for (in that sense)
"If you think you've found the one, and she doesn't think you're the one, THEN she's obviously not the one."
Now, would that be a negative point of view? I mean you could theoretically change her point of view, right?
So according to YC, I haven't found THE ONE.
I think I did.. perhaps I should amend it to, I thought I did...
I burn bridges alot.. =P I'm the kind of guy who's all or nothing.
"Anything worth doing is worth doing right." That's pretty much the credo I live by which also creates some unnecessary drama.. sigh..
I'd been guilty of perhaps making comparisons with my then current with someone whom I thought would have been most ideal one to be with whom I gave up on.
But now I've found a new ideal.. Someone who matches up to the former ideal and even surpasses her.
Alas, I'm not her ideal..
back to square one.