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Grand finale!!! (last soppy copy and paste crap) - It's my life and anything else in between.
Soo Jin

Date: 2006-10-19 21:42
Subject: Grand finale!!! (last soppy copy and paste crap)
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Why do we close our eyes when we sleep? When we cry? When we imagine? When we kiss? This is because the most beautiful thing in the world is unseen.We are all a little weird and life's a little weird and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love. There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind, but keep in mind that letting go isn't the end of the world, it's the beginning of a new life.

Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched and those who have tried. For only they can appreciate the importance of the people who have touched their lives. A great love? It's when you shed tears and still you care for him/her, it's when he/she ignores you and still you long for him/her. It's when he/she begins to love another and yet you still smile and say I'm happy for you. If love fails, set yourself free, let your heart spread its wings and fly again. member you may find love and lose it, but when love dies, you never have to die with it. The strongest people are not those who always win but those who stand back up when they fall.
Somehow along the course of life, you learn about yourself and realize there should never be regrets, only a lifelong appreciation of the choices you've made. A true friend understands when you say, I forgot, waits forever when you say, just a minute, stays when you say leave me alone, opens the door even before you knock and says can I come in?

Loving is not how you forget but how you forgive, not how you listen but how you understand, not what you see but how you feel, and not how you let go but how you hold on. It's more dangerous to weep inwardly rather than outwardly. Outward tears can be wiped away while secret tears scar forever. In love, very rarely do we win but when love is true, even if you lose, you still win just for having the tingle of loving someone more than you love yourself. There comes a time when we have to stop loving someone not because that person has stopped loving us but because we have found out that they'd be happier if we let go. If you really love someone never let go, don't believe that letting go means that you love best, instead fight for your love, that's what true love is.

It's best to wait for the one you want than settle for one that's available. Best to wait for the one you love than one who is around. Best to wait for the right one because life is too short to waste on just someone. Sometimes the one you love turns out to be the one who hurts you the most, and someetimes the friend who takes you into his arms and cries when you cry turns out to be the love you never knew you wanted.
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User: (Anonymous)
Date: 2006-10-20 09:06 (UTC)
Subject: very true
the one you loves turns out to be the one who hurts you the most. This is a very touching post and it make sense. Something like a beautiful quote that haunts us. - charlene.
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User: dcsjin
Date: 2006-10-20 12:04 (UTC)
Subject: Re: very true
because we love them, we allow ourselves to be hurt.. =)
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User: (Anonymous)
Date: 2006-10-20 15:19 (UTC)
Subject: i don't agree with you
you said we allow ourselves to be hurt..that's not true...then where is the glory of love then? Love brings us happiness and it can also be the unsuspecting criminal that makes you grope away in the darkness in the valley. It can give you moments of confusion and it is troublesome sometimes. But Love itself can be selfless and we as beings should be able to love selflessly in this life asking no more but for Trust, Respect, Fidelity, and Compromise when it comes to this great emotion.

It is definitely not easy to believe that the hardest thing is to love someone deeply and having the courage to have the person whom you love to love you back...We don't allow ourselves to be hurt...Expressing the love and affection that we harbor for a person is not easy and guts are needed almost all the time. There could be tongue tied situations. Sometimes. But if we do not try we would not know what it feels like. However, when it comes to Love there can be many “roadblocks” as well because everything is not easy and Time and Efforts are needed to keep the fiery passion of Love burning and glowing. I am sure all of you know what I mean.

OMG! long post! - charlene.

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User: dcsjin
Date: 2006-10-20 19:31 (UTC)
Subject: Re: i don't agree with you
we allow ourselves to be hurt because we reveal a side that others may not possibly see.. we make ourselves vulnerable in order to be able to respond, react, to offer love
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